Fun time questions …

I have not posted is forever and still do not know if R has read my dirty secrets/stories to her. I like to play a lot and by play I mean have sex. I like to feel her body and her reaction. I really enjoy playing and teasing her – I think R likes it too. Along time ago I bought her a massage candle – really works great and a turn on for me too. We are very religious and this last Valentine’s day I pulled out a toy I had been hiding for a couple years. Remote control fun, it was a blast. We had a great weekend and played a lot. One thing has always stuck in my head as to how much is too much? I am always afraid to let it out a tell her what I want so I looked up stuff in my handbooks and the basic premise in our church is that what happens between a MARRIED couple (male and female) in the bedroom is between themselves, and that open communication is the key. The Leadership is counseled not to discuss details or what they do – only to encourage communication between the two individuals. It is a very interesting history about so and so says this and a lot of he said / she said. One thing I did find is that our church leadership has not condoned or canonized any bedroom activities. Just members that want to interject their own beliefs on how things “should” be. So, I googled it … “Mormon Sex Toys”… I did not find a store off hand (bad pun), but I ran into a lot of misinformed people, anti’s, and a couple really cool blogs about a sexually active couple that has studied it out more than me … I don’t know if R has any reservations, I have realized that as long as she cool with it I will tell her my most “dangerous” or “crazy” thoughts that pop into my sick and twisted mind.