Mother's Day

what makes a good mom is that she should be able to get away from being a mom every once and a while.  So naturally we are busy the whole weekend that is why I had you write busy on the Friday before.  Just to have some time to get out and get away.  Sure I going to sneak out of work early that day So we can get a head start. So what ever you want, we will do - I was thinking of running away to a real town for dinner, or some other surprise. Let me know how far you feel comfortable with and I will suprise you. Love you.

Dream or Fantasy

Don't know what it is but lately I have had some wild dreams of you teasing me.  And when I say tease I mean taunting me sexually.  R like me to come up with all the risky ideas, and I would love to put her into some risky situations.  But, I have a difficult time bringing it up.  The dreams I have had lately have blown my mind.  I have only shared small amount of the details.  I will try to lay them out here.  Hope I don't embarrass you from the detail.  I have actually carried that remote vibe many times with me but never actually had the nerve to ask you to put it on.  A boy can dream.

Dream 1, starts off with us going to a restaurant you of course looking hot as usual.  Just before we get out of the car I hand you the business end of the remote vibratory and have you put it down your pants.  We walk on with you not knowing when or if I will use the remote to make you squirm with excitement.  Waiting out in the foyer, surounded by people you keep giving me dirty looks and whispering warnings not to do it.  I just smile and nod.  Just as a couple gets up beside us I give it a low shot, while no one sees or is distracted.  You smile a threatening smile like you want to kick my butt, but you enjoy the low hum turning you on more than you already are.  Just thinking of what I am doing to you has me turned on too.  Shutting it off your smile drops like you want more - now is my time to smile back just letting you guess in anticipation to the next shot of pleasure.

The restaurants buzzer goes off and it is our turn to take a seat.  Walking through the crowd all I can think is that with one touch of a button I could take you to your knees.  You carefully take your seat staring at me waiting for me to hit that button just as you are sitting I give it a shock and you jump into you seat.  I laugh a little as you smile back with pleasure.  now it is your turn as you start to tell me things you want me to do to you later, this turns me on so much, I cannot escape to go adjust myself or hide from you in the bathroom. The only chance I have is to turn you on even more as I increase your intensity.  The only problem is that it turns me on even more.  We both agree to to hold off and look for something to eat as the waiter breaks up of erotica fight and asks us our drinks.

We turn our attention to the menus as I contemplate making a run to the restroom to adjust myself into a better position.   I make it back successfully and slide in asking if you know what you want.  "Of course I know", you say with a sly smile, getting me all hot again. changing the subject I ask what to eat, that did help either ... I have to remind you that I have the control for now with a little shock from my remote.  The waiter comes up to us and we order our meals, just as he turns to leave I shock you with a good burst and you jump causing him to stop for a second to ask if you wanted anything else.  You reply no thanks and try to glare at me as I just act oblivious to the fact that I just had you leaping with pleasure.

Waiting for our meal was more like a hostage negotiation on who was going to get off first.  You would take your foot trying to get me to explode out of my shorts and I would have to defend myself with my electrical friend.  You just nod you head and tense you as I increase the intensity.  You strike back telling me how wet you are and want me in you. We get to the point where we are both about to go when we are rescued by the waiter and our dinner.

Hungry or just horny we eat our food not wasting time talking.  Until I start to see how hard it is for you to chew while your body is wanting to orgasm.  Playing back and forth like this he finally finishing our meals and wanting to finish ourselves.   We pay the bill and leave as we get weird looks from a few guests and waiters.  It is hard to walkout with a hard on and you pausing to make me run into you so you can rub your butt against me.  I almost cannot take it.  So as we get to the door I give you a good shock and your knees come together as your hands slip off the door you catch yourself.  Laughing we both hobble to the car so we can finally get our hands on each other.

I will add more dreams in another post if you want more...  love you babe.

that last trip was great

Took a trip with R back in the winter, must say it was a blast.  I think she enjoyed herself, at least she was quite worn out - as I was too!  I had not expected such a long session and as many days either. R is a knockout.  She likes the thing we do together and it takes everything in me to not go early when she is going down on me.  not only that I got some time to go down on R, I feel like I nev let get enough time to do that for her.   It is one of my favorite things to do.   I really enjoy being a good "Southern" boy and by her reactions I thing you do too.  Now that I have a new toy, I have been thinking about using it on you and my tongue at the same time.  Love you babe, your one hot woman.  Can't wait to get a few hours on you. :)

Dead Animals

We had a rabbit die, after years of enjoyment for both of us.  I surprised R with a new one.  The old one was typical - I guess if you want to call such a machine "typical".  It did the job I think we just wore it out.  I was kind of disappointed when it died - of course I found out on a get away that we could actually get it out and use it. That old rabbit did good, there is something about watching your body react to the toy that turns me on so much.  you never seemed to shy away when ever I get the chance to use on you either. I know you tell me that you want me inside you but I also can tell from that look in your eye that it feels good to have it up in you too.  Whether it is a change of pace or just different pressure in different place I can tell you like it too.   So I was really dismayed by the fact that it had died.  But now I had a chance to get something different.  That new 9ne is that the shape is sloped in a new form and instead of the rotations it has all vibrations.  I know we have really only tried it once but I think you liked it, and I have been thinking of using it on you since.  So in an effort to get R the reply to my postings I will have to make her reply here if she wants it again.  I might even give you extra points if you tell me how it felt and what you liked about it.

Love you, you are a great wife and I am lucky to have you.

Birthday Wishes

One thing I love is our time to just get away together, sure sex is on the plate but so is just hanging (hopefully not to loosely – haha), laughing, and generally reconnecting. Being as busy as we are it seems I barely get to see the girl I love the most.  She is amazing juggling all the kids activities, her life, and me.

We finally are able to “runaway” for my birthday, sure it is to a location that we can return home quickly but it is a chance for us to be one again.  It might be my birthday but I want her to enjoy the relaxation of getting out just as much as me. 


I am so lucky to have my hot wife even if I do have to beg for it on occasion.  She is the only woman I ever dream about – she is the total package and I am very happy to have found her. 


Love you babe!

The Biggest "O": Mission Possible?

Short story/lesson I ran into trying to learn how to get her to have a bigger and better Orgasm than ever before … 

Men take ejaculation for granted. It's like a 'liquid-trophy' of man-hood, and the source of your future legacies and heirs. But cast your mind back to that very first time you managed to squeeze some 'Gentleman's Gel' from the end of your 'young chap'. With females the climax has always been much harder to tell. After all, the female orgasm never had such a visible finale, or so you've been led to believe. A skill possessed by most females but in reality admitted and permitted by few, female ejaculation is one of those few remaining taboos and 'un-tapped' delights of the 21st century.
 You all know that your girl can’t help but spill the beans on your 'sexploits' to her close circle of friends. She'll be all too eager to divulge your size, expertise and finishing techniques, but never be fooled into thinking she's dishing the dirt on herself. It's strange but there are still some subjects considered too taboo to share over a bottle of wine, and depositing her 'load' seems to be up there with rimming and fisting. In truth you are more likely to hear a guy discuss the pleasures of female ejaculation than you ever would a woman History dating back as far back as the 2nd Century has detailed the ability of females to ejaculate during sex. Yet often when seeking medical counsel from doctors, gynaecologists, and psychiatrists, these anxious ladies were invariably told they were incontinent and needed either surgery or psychotherapy. In fact what these ladies are actually achieving is the absolute pinnacle of female sexual pleasure. An ejaculatory orgasm, or 'squirting' as now commonly referred, which renders them well and truly spent! Most of us ladies who have experienced an ejaculation initially believed we've suffered from a leaky bladder. Lots of females, under thorough interrogation or clever coaxing will admit to having had an experience where they believed they'd 'leaked' during sex.
 The feeling of ejaculating is not dissimilar to peeing, a shower of warm wet liquid and a feeling of intense release. Once released, the actual ejaculation itself can be a mind-blowing experience for both partners. Not only does the female get 'THE' most intense orgasm, but also the lucky partner gets some serious dousing of love-juice. The amount of fluid 'squirted' can vary considerably in volume. Most Doctors have settled between the 5ml and 100ml volume. In reality many men are fascinated with this so-called 'phenomenon' adding to the growing 'ejaculating super-female' urban myth. But a price does have to be paid for all this pleasure. First of all it can present a new slant on the question of 'who sleeps on the wet patch?' Especially when we are not talking about just a lovin' spoonful, but up to half a pint.
 There are a few ground rules to undertaking your quest. Do not set out believing there really is such a thing as the 'ejaculating super-female'. Most women can ejaculate but many don't. In the same way that all women can orgasm even though some don't, be it through physical or mental blockage, or just plain in-experience. When you guys first engaged in a 'five knuckle shuffle' you got a result. It may have taken a while before you managed to produce your 'baby gravy', but you still got hard and it captured your affections. The climax has always been much more hidden and complex in females, and as such, a source of infinite frustration in men. Giving rise to that ever popular question 'How was it for you?' You seem to need to ask us!
 Like in Yoga where one is taught to almost reverse ones breathing pattern, in sex the female needs to control another inbuilt reflex. The building of the 'ejaculation' does feel very much like a desire to pee and as soon as the urethra starts to tingle, second nature kicks in. When squeezed The Pubococcygeus Muscle (try get your tongue around that!), prevents the bladder leaking. It is crucial for your girlfriend to oppose this contraction and actually bear down against it. This is not an easy concept to get your head around because if you bear against the muscle that prevents you peeing, surely that means you do. Not in this instance it seems. Contraction of the muscle in this instance actually stops an orgasm from building; pretty much the same way as squeezing the base of the penis does in men. It does not prevent further ejaculation, just postpones it. This is the first barrier you need to deal with. Remember the hunt for the clitoris? Well if that equalled gaining an 'A' level qualification, getting your girlfriend to 'squirt' for the very first time is like obtaining a PhD.
 The ejaculation itself does come through the urethra, the same tube used for urination. It is located just outside the vaginal opening. If you spread your ladies inner labia and trace your finger from just inside her pussy, up towards the clitoris, after about half an inch you can find a tiny hole. Almost a needle in a haystack, especially if your lady is unshaven. This is where the ejaculation fluid exits, but not where it originates. That's the job of the 'Skene Gland'. The equivalent to a male prostate, which produces seminal fluid in males and it's hidden between the G-spot and the clitoris. Although some insignificant traces of urine are evident, the composition is not that dissimilar to the fluid produced by the male prostate to keep all those hungry little 'baby-makers' alive during male ejaculation. The fluid can appear like either watered down milk or can be clear in composition. It in no way offers any contraception as the fluid is expelled outside the vagina. Therefore the only conceivable purpose of female ejaculation is for pleasure. And the pleasure is intense, in many cases far surpassing any previous best.
 Ejaculation can take place during both a clitoral and a vaginal orgasm, thus providing a magical 'third' orgasm An ejaculation results from manipulation inside the vagina, as per a vaginal orgasm, but with an added jackpot. Giving the female an amazing double whammy orgasm. Sometimes after ejaculation the female can virtually pass out from the after-glow of forceful feelings. But don't worry, unlike men, there's usually more to follow. Give her a few minutes and she'll be filling up like the office water cooler. Obviously a starting point to your crusade is required. It usually helps to wait until your lucky lady is already aroused before declaring your honourable intentions. Each orgasm will deliver a different volume of liquid in all manner of directions and velocity. This can range in spectacle from a trickling 5ml to a turbulent 200ml .
 Start off slowly with lots of foreplay, for both parties. Manoeuvre her onto her back with you positioned between her thighs. Using your fingers and tongue stimulate her clitoris. Wet your fingers and tweak her nipples to really get her going, whilst executing the best cunnilingus skills you can muster. When you sense her starting to get aroused, insert two fingers inside her with your palm facing upwards. Enter your fingers up to the second knuckle and bend upwards to create an L shape. Now gently probe around until you find a rough surface approx 2 inches in length. This is the G-spot and is located directly behind the clitoris. Keep measuring her responses. Heavy breathing, deep moaning and contractions around your fingers are a good indication that something is working. When you feel her start to bear down, begin pumping your fingers faster. At some point hopefully your girlfriend will experience a desire to pee. This is what you are both aiming for. If she can bear down and positively encourage this, and your handy-work has been sufficient, things should get very wet.
 If your girlfriend does manage to ejaculate it will, rest assured, catch you both by surprise. This is a significant moment for both of you, and if it's either party's first time, you will remember that moment of impact forever. The truly amazing bonus that evolution has granted us finally superior to males is that we can do it again and again. Be aware that in the same way we can have multiple orgasms, we can also have multiple ejaculations. Intensity and amount of fluid may vary with each individual orgasm until our supplies are depleted, but the sensations just get better. Your girlfriend may not ejaculate every time she orgasms, and indeed a case is even documented where a lady approached her gynaecologist believing she was ill because it had stopped happening.
 Pressure on the female to deliver can be intense, and can prevent ejaculation in the same way it happens to men. Relaxation, an open mind and willingness are the three key factors. If these elements all click the final result will most likely be the most pleasurable and intense orgasm she has ever experienced. Now just imagine being the guy able to deliver that! After ejaculating your girlfriend will obviously, and hopefully, be a bit delirious for a few moments. It passes way too quickly so let her enjoy it before commencing with your wicked-way. She probably will want you to continue in a few seconds, or she may wish to have a breather. But I'm sure you will also wish to take a couple of seconds to comprehend the aftermath.
 As for achieving other ejaculations beyond this point, it's a bit like riding a bike (hopefully without the grazed knees). There is a surprise finale to all this activity. Your girlfriend's need to finally pee. If confirmation that she did not pee was needed, Mother Nature doesn't fail. It is quite possible to drain a very full bladder after having also ejaculated up to 250ml and it always raises a wry smile on my face.

My Life Support ... She is the best

My wife is the best thing that has ever happened to me.  She is my ultimate life support system, she builds me up when I am down and keeps me from going crazy.  R you are a great woman - I love you.  thanks for all you do.


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