Missing In Action

Sex drives are a funny thing, I am always wanting it but R is is just not in the mood.  I try to understand but my basic of all instincts kick in.  I will say it drive me crazy. My crazy brain says it feels great and is fun, so, let's do it all the time!  R is like I like it, but I have this and that and this and that .... I know that she is a busy woman, but I still cannot get things to jive in me.  I get stressed out thinking: what have I done, is she pissed at me, did I say something?  I know she is being pulled in a million different directions at once.  I just want R to know I understand and that she has demands and what ever I can do I will to her get her naked - hahaha!